How do you know if you want the same thing during the date?


How do you know if you want the same thing during the date?

Imagine you are on a date with someone you don't know well so far but who is very attractive to you. And every following minute of the date, your sympathy for your partner grows.

When the level of passion has heated up, and you feel that you want more than just a date, you don't dare tell your partner so as not to scare him off. There are several ways to know if you want the same thing.

Pay attention to your physical and emotional cues. Physical attraction can often indicate that you want the same thing, as it involves both the mind and body.

  •  If she's not shy about touching, it means she's comfortable in your presence.
  •  Pay attention to the way she dances with you. Has she probably become more snuggled up, her movements and touches more relaxed? Perhaps this is a hint of something more...
  • If the girl is in the mood to continue the evening in a more private place, she is trying to tell you that in every possible way. With a playful look with a timid aversion of her eyes, she nibbles her lips, plays with her hair, tries to get close to you, or doesn't stop you from doing so.
  • Will she encourage a conversation on a juicy topic? The main thing is not to go overboard and choose a topic that will pique interest, not discourage it. 
  • Naked Neck. According to studies, the neck is the most attractive zone on a woman's body. When she removes her hair from this area and tilts her head for you, she indicates that you are appealing to her. The neck area is very erotic and is an erogenous zone for many. 
  • Opening the inside of the wrists. This is a gesture similar to exposing the neck. Its purpose is to show defenselessness and a desire to get to know each other better.

Don't waste time if you both appear to want the same thing on a date; instead, move on to getting closer: take her hand in yours and whisper something intimate into her ear. If you have noticed signs of attraction, it means that the time has come to decide on how to get your partner even closer. You can start with a kiss on the hand or cheek. Do not allow yourself too much intimacy at once - you will scare her away! Let her feel more confident and relaxed in your presence so that she wants further intimacy.

All of the mentioned signals indicate her desire to continue the evening with you in a more private place. The more of these, the better for you, but don't forget that not everyone is looking for sex on the first date, and you may need a little more time to get to the next stage. If you do not want to be caught unawares, you must be protected and be sure that everything will work out for you :)

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