The Best Ways to Pick Her Up at the Gym

Maybe you've seen her there before and you'd like to take the opportunity to speak with her, but you're not sure how to go about it. Well, here are a few tips that might help make the process a little less nerve-wracking.

Okay, so before even start thinking of flirting with someone at the gym, do your homework: get yourself a good looking gym clothes that make you feel comfortable and good looking, don't forget to use deodorant, and make sure you're not red-skin and sweaty when you approach her, have a positive attitude, and be confident. 

First of all: it's totally okay to talk to a girl casually at the gym. 

Just don't interrupt her while she's working out, don't stalk her or anything like that.

Don't stare!  

When you see her, make eye contact and give her a smile. This will let her know that you're interested and approachable. If she smiles back, take it as a good sign and walk up to her.

Make sure you approach her confidently and with a smile.

Start with some small talk, like asking her how her workout is going. Make some compliments on something. It could be anything from her great workout routine to her cute gym clothes. Just make sure it's something genuine that you can sincerely say. Crack a joke, discuss the training session, and see where the conversation goes from there. 

When you're talking to her, try to keep the conversation light and friendly. Avoid getting too personal or asking invasive questions. And most importantly, be a good listener! Pay attention to what she's saying and ask follow-up questions if you need clarification.

Before you know it, the conversation will be flowing smoothly and you'll be able to gauge whether or not she's interested in you. If she seems to be enjoying herself, ask for her number so you can continue the conversation outside of the gym. 

With these tips in mind, approaching girls at the gym will be a breeze! So go out there and start chatting away.

Good luck!

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