Sex Guide: The threesome - how to make it work?

Many of us fantasize about a threesome, and most are afraid to talk about it loudly to the partner not to hurt their feelings. But if you still came together to decide to experiment, this article is for you. 

Unfortunately, over time, the excitement fades. If partners no longer tolerate it, they want to try to diversify their sexual relationships. And one of these varieties of an MFM or FMF threesome, or possibly both.  

Remember, it is essential to wrap your partner's attention, care, and love, not the guest star. You need to clearly understand where your long-term partner is and who you're just fucking. There are no hard feelings or unpleasant circumstances if you talk about everything in advance. Tell them how you love your partner, reassure them, inspire them, and know how to encourage your partner. If all is well, continue. And if the discomfort does not disappear - stop. You will still have time and a chance to try again.  

Suppose this experience is the first time for you. In that case, I advise you not to invite a familiar person so as not to spoil the relationship. It is better to try with a stranger who has already had this experience. The best thing, in this case, is to use one of the dating sites, where you can do a targeted search for partners. It will also help to avoid embarrassing situations in the future.  

Let's decide on the format: MFM or FMF? 

In the case of an MFM threesome, everything is more manageable, and success is almost 100% guaranteed as a woman is much easier to satisfy with this combination. 

Advantages:

• Two men = two tongues, four hands, two penises. Double penetration, double pleasure. One of the most common desires of women and she is the queen in the spotlight of two men. 
• Also, unlike a man, women can experience multiple orgasms. The advantage in this situation is that while one man is recovering from ejaculation, the second actively continues to deliver a continuous extravaganza. 

Disadvantages:

• Suppose a man mentally, emotionally, or physically is not ready to be naked in bed with another man. In that case, it is better to refrain from such experiments. Take care of your mental health; it's essential. 

It's all about trust. The woman must have some trust in at least one of the men.

It is crucial to come up with a STOP word! In a fit of passion, four strong hands significantly reduce the freedom of one's partner. It's easy to mix up moans of pain with moans of pleasure, especially if you're unfamiliar. Maybe you should change the position or the amplitude. Or, for example, she was not going to, and perhaps even against anal sex, after numerous orgasms girl may not have the physical strength to resist. Stop words are critical once again.

FMF Threesome. 

As strange as it may sound, this combination is much more challenging to implement. 

Which guy doesn't fantasize about having sex with two women? The topic has a long and illustrious history. It is a dream about two naked girls kissing, stroking, their fingertips lightly climbing into each other's panties, inviting a man's attention, then pouncing on him.

But in most cases, it's not like that. In most cases, one or even both girls remain unsatisfied and dissatisfied with the experience. There are plenty of reasons for that:

• The man didn't pay enough attention to his beloved partner; he switched to the second girl for a long time.
• He got overexcited and came quickly. 
• Your woman begins to look for flaws and compare themselves to the second partner, which leads to jealousy and unconfidence.
• Men's strength and attention were not enough for two at once.

To succeed in this endeavor, you need to know all the pitfalls. 

Advantages:

• Two naked girls in one bed are one of the most popular subjects in the porn industry, and it is enjoyed not only by men but also by many girls.  
• It allows you to reveal a woman's sexuality. But we should also not forget that not all women are bisexual. There are more bisexual women than men, namely more than 65%. But not everyone is ready to admit it, even to themselves. This trio is a great way to explore the previously unknown territory of your sexuality and attractions. 

Disadvantages:

• Women initially feel differently than men. It is crucial to be prepared. Otherwise, your idea will collapse, and all three of you may be dissatisfied. A bad joke or uninhibited behavior can reduce, if not eliminate, all the excitement and desire. 
• It is worth considering even the most minor details. If the girls do not know each other before - you definitely need to get acquainted a little closer and find out their preferences in at least food and drink. You have to make sure that the invited girl trusts you and is ready to continue. Equally important is how your woman behaves. Make sure she doesn't see the invited girl as a threat to your relationship.

Team play is the key to success.

Start with a guest star. Bring her to orgasm with your partner. After a short rest, you and your guest can give attention and caresses to your woman, and then after a short break, the girls will satisfy you. 

It is not necessary to play a porn shot when it comes to your women. It's enough if both of you stroke her back, tummy, and hair gently. Kissing her shoulders, neck, and ear. Looking into her eyes with a reassuring smile while the man is entering or petting her is enough to make her feel comfortable and relaxed. 

Following these guidelines increases the chances of success during the first experience.

Rules not to be neglected: 

• All three must be attracted to each other. Otherwise, it is better not even to start.
• Come up with a STOP word with your partner. This will help avoid awkward situations if something does not go according to plan. 
• It is better if your meeting will take place on neutral territory. So your guest will be able to feel comfortable, and you can all relax more quickly. This can be a rented apartment, a hotel, or a country house. 
• Atmosphere. It is necessary to create an atmosphere that women love. For women, it is a vital part of the hookup date. For some, it's lovely music, aromatic candles, and someone needs chocolate, fruit, and soft drinks.
• You can start the evening by watching light porn. Still, it's pretty risky, as it depends on the partners' preferences.
• Be sure to stock up on water and light snacks. By the way, for some people, a light snack is half an apple, and for some - it's half a pizza:) We advise you to learn in advance about food and beverage preferences. 
• And last but not least - stock up on lubes and contraceptives. 

And let your plans come true in the best way! 

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