Sexting Tips: How to Talk Dirty and Drive Your Partner Wild


Sexting Tips: How to Talk Dirty and Drive Your Partner Wild

What exactly is sexting? Sexting is a form of communication that involves sexual content, typically through text messages or images. It's a way to get your partner excited and turned on before you even meet up.

How to Get Started With Sexting

Not sure how to get started? Here are a few tips:

  • Start off slow. It can be daunting to jump into the deep end of the pool, so to speak. Start by sending a few flirty messages and see how your partner responds. Gage their level of interest and go from there.
  • Keep it classy. Dirty talk doesn't have to be obscene or X-rated, and sometimes a little subtlety can be even sexier.
  • Be yourself. Don't try to be someone you're not. Your partner can tell if you're faking it, which is guaranteed to kill the mood.
  • Be playful and spontaneous. Don't stress out about it – just let the conversation flow naturally and let the lust take over.
  • Use your imagination! The possibilities are endless when it comes to sexting, so get creative!

What Not To Do

You might be feeling daring, but there are some things you should never do when sexting.
Don't use vulgar or explicit sexual language too early in the conversation; it can make your partner uncomfortable and put them off. Tone it down a notch until you've built up some sexual tension.
Also, don't tell her you've been thinking of her sexually for a long time. It might make her feel like you're obsessed with her, and that's not the impression you want to give.
And finally, never send unsolicited dick pics. And it's just inappropriate, and it's likely to get you banned from sexting with your partner. So there you have it, a few things to avoid when sexting. 

What To Do

To get started, find a quiet moment when you and your partner can focus on each other. Then, start the conversation by sending a flirty or suggestive message.
Compliment your partner's appearance, or tell them what you'd like to do to them. Be as specific as you can, and let your imagination run wild.
Don't be afraid to get a little naughty. The point of sexting is to turn each other on, after all. But always ensure your partner is comfortable with the conversation's direction. Once you've got the ball rolling, keep the momentum by responding quickly to your partner's messages. The back-and-forth of a sexting conversation can be incredibly erotic, so keep it going until both of you are satisfied.
If they seem hesitant, back off and try something else. There's no need to force it. Once you get into a rhythm, you'll likely find that things start to flow more naturally. And before you know it, you'll both eagerly anticipate your next sexting session.

Good Examples of Sexting Conversations

Don't worry, we're here to help. Here are a few good examples of sexting conversations:

  • "I can't wait to get home and rip your clothes off."
  • "I'm so horny right now. I wish you were here with me."
  • "I wanna taste you."
  • "I'm picturing you naked right now."
  • "I'm going to make you so wet."
  • "You make me so hard."
  • "I can't wait to feel you inside me."
  • "I love it when you talk dirty to me."
  • "I want you to make me cum."
  • "I'm going to make you cum so hard."

Bad Examples of Sexting Conversations

We're here to give you some bad examples of sexting conversations that you should avoid:

  • "Hey, I'm thinking about you naked right now." This is way too direct and will make your partner feel uncomfortable.
  • "I can't stop thinking about your body." Again, this is too forward and will make your partner feel like you're only interested in their physical appearance.
  • "What are you wearing?" This is just plain creepy, and you should never ask someone this question without their consent. 
  • "I want to do dirty things to you." This is too explicit and might make your partner feel uncomfortable.
  • "I can't wait to have sex with you." This is way too forward.

Avoid these conversation starters if you want a successful sexting experience with your partner. Instead, try something more subtle and suggestive. Get your partner thinking about what they want you to do to them. Be creative and use your imagination. Your partner will thank you for it!


While sexting can be a great way to get your partner hot and bothered in anticipation of your next meeting, knowing how to start and what to say can also be tricky.
Here are a few tips to get you started:
1. Start with something gentle and suggestive.
2. Ramp up the heat as you go.
3. Keep it sexy, but don't get too graphic.
4. Pay attention to your partner's reaction and respond accordingly.
5. Be prepared for some NSFW (not safe for work) replies!
With these tips in mind, you'll be on your way to having some seriously sexy conversations that will leave you both panting for more. 
Folks, if you don't have anyone with whom you can practice sexting right now, feel free to register on one of the dating sites and go ahead to new experiences.

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Jacob Horan

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Jacob Horan is a charismatic dating blogger sharing practical insights and relatable experiences to guide readers in navigating the modern world of romance.

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